Making Change

I wanted to avoid the cliche of making this the post to start off 2009, but things just happened to work out this way. Don’t look at the message of this post as a resolution – I find those are broken more often than not – but as a life goal that I’ve been working on for a while now.

Recently, I’ve been taking a look at what exactly it is I want to do with my life. It’s a big question, I know, and not one easily answered. I was inspired by watching Shake Hands With the Devil, the story of Gen. Romeo Dallaire and the Rwanda genocides. In fact, I’m pretty sure that I don’t have that question answered – but I have come much closer to an answer as to what I’d like to do with the remainder of my 20s.

This decision has come from a few conversations over the last while – both in person and online. I find that the corporate lifestyle doesn’t really satisfy me at this point, and I suspect that I was pretending that was what I really wanted to do at this point. That’s not to say that I don’t want to do the corporate life eventually, but this isn’t the time for it, at least in my opinion.

Your 20s are a time for you to take chances, to do things that may not work, to screw things up. There is very little that you can do at this age, at the mere beginning of your “working” life that will cause serious long-term damage to you. (Yes, Jaime, I totally cribbed this from you – my apologies.)

With that said, and my current mindset, I’m looking to work towards the goal of making meaningful change while I’m still young and motivated to do so. The specific attack plan isn’t developed yet – and I’m in my lease until September, so I’m in my current digs for a while – but one of the things I’d like to do is head overseas to work or volunteer. Not to teach English (not that there’s anything wrong with that), but to build things, help people, and use my situation and skills to help those in need. I think that the experience provided by this would be invaluable, and humbling.

If you have any ideas or thoughts for me as to programs I could get involved in, please let me know – I’m definitely all ears. I wish Canada had a Peace Corps – that sort of program would be perfect for the sorts of stuff I’d like to do at the moment.

I’m looking to take a lot of chances, with the aim of making change and helping people. I may fail, yes, but I’ll be able to come back from it. If you’re young, and stuck doing something you don’t like to do, why don’t you look to make a positive change in your life, and perhaps consider making changes in others?

  • If you're literally looking to build things in faraway lands, Habitat for Humanity has an international arm that may be of interest. I think this is it (the Global Village program):
    http://www.habitat.org/gv/
  • Dan
    Vanessa: Thanks! I feel both Kenya and Rwanda would be cool experiences, let me know which your church chooses!

    Jaime: Only if you'll be the Oprah, Jaime - don't think I'm not going to hold you to that. ;)

    Ken: I hear where you're at. I simply can't see myself busting through the wall like you did, though. I feel like your work is more rewarding to you in a lot of ways than mine - many of which I'm not willing to write about here - and truly admire the fact that you love what you do and have that commitment at our young age. I'll obviously keep you posted as to where things go.
  • Ken
    Good post Hock. Definitely a respectable plan, but I'll also share my experience with you. I found myself feeling similarly to you, thinking that I needed to change what I was doing because I wasn't happy, and it was around the same time after starting work as you are at about now. I decided to give it some more time and realized it wasn't that I needed to change what I was doing, I had to change how I was looking at it and what effort I was putting into it. Now, I'm loving what I do and plan to do it for a long time.

    Only you know what's best for you - if along your path you've hit a wall, do you find a new path, take a break from walking, or bust straight through the wall? I'm interested to hear where you end up heading.
  • Good post! I don't mind being cribbed at all when it's in such a thoughtful manner. Be the Barack, Dan, be the Barack!
  • Vanessa Lupton
    Great topic! I have a friend who went to Guatemala for a few months to help build houses and an orphanage - I'll ask her what group she went with.

    I'm potentially going to either Kenya or Rwanda in the spring through my church as well, which I'm really looking forward to, I just have to find out where we're headed!
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